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Personality Disorders

Personality disorders feature persistent patterns of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors that deviate from cultural expectations and cause significant distress. Personality disorders include:

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What are Personality Disorders?

Personality disorders are long-standing patterns of inner experience and behavior that differ markedly from what is expected in a person’s culture. These patterns are inflexible, pervasive, and lead to distress or impairment in personal, social, and occupational functioning.

Women are disproportionately diagnosed with certain personality disorders, including borderline personality disorder, which is often linked to histories of trauma, abuse, and interpersonal difficulties. Understanding the unique ways personality disorders present in women is central to effective, compassionate care.

Without proper treatment, personality disorders can strain relationships, disrupt daily functioning, and contribute to co-occurring conditions such as depression, anxiety, and substance use. With the right therapeutic support, meaningful and lasting change is possible.

How We Treat Personality Disorders at EleMental Health

A clinician will conduct an in-depth interview as the initial step in developing an individualized treatment plan. During this conversation, the clinician asks detailed questions about your presenting symptoms, chronic symptoms, cognitive functioning, and physical and mental health histories.

A comprehensive psychiatric evaluation ensures the treatment team receives an accurate picture of the underlying factors and any co-occurring mental health disorders such as trauma, depression, or anxiety.

Diagnostic tools include the oral interview and any relevant psychological assessments. Based on the gathered information, a diagnosis and tailored treatment plan are created to guide the treatment process.

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Why You Should Seek Professional Help for Personality Disorders

Personality disorders are complex conditions that are deeply woven into a person’s sense of self and way of relating to the world. Without professional support, these patterns can be nearly impossible to recognize and change on one’s own.

Untreated personality disorders often lead to repeated relationship breakdowns, unstable employment, and cycles of conflict that a woman may not fully understand from the inside. Because these patterns feel like simply “who she is,” self-awareness alone rarely creates lasting change without outside perspective and structure.

A clinical team experienced in personality disorders can distinguish between overlapping conditions and identify co-occurring trauma, depression, or anxiety that may be fueling the patterns. Specialized therapies like DBT give women concrete skills for managing intense emotions and relationships, skills that are very difficult to build without guided practice.

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Our Approach

A comprehensive psychiatric evaluation ensures the treatment team receives an accurate picture of the underlying factors and any co-occurring mental health disorders.

Diagnostic tools include the oral interview and any relevant psychological assessments. Based on the gathered information, a diagnosis and tailored treatment plan are created to guide the treatment process.

  • Psychiatric evaluation and diagnosis

  • Holistic wellness integration

  • Individualized treatment planning

  • Progress monitoring

  • Evidence-based therapeutic modalities

  • Family support

  • Trauma-informed care

Our Program

At EleMental Health, we understand that reaching out for support can be a big step. Whether you have questions, need assistance, or simply want to connect, we’re here to listen and provide the help you deserve.

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  • Women-Only Residential Care

    A safe, structured residential environment designed exclusively for women, free from the distractions of everyday life so healing can take center stage.

  • Individualized Treatment Plans

    Every treatment plan is built around each resident's unique history, needs, and goals so care remains personal and effective.

  • Integrated Mental Health Support

    Co-occurring concerns are identified and treated alongside the primary diagnosis so the full picture of mental health is addressed.

  • Holistic Healing Modalities

    Therapeutic and holistic practices support the mind, body, and spirit so women leave with lasting tools for well-being.

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Testimonials

What Our Clients Are Saying

Discover how EleMental Health has helped so many women reclaim their lives.

I had such an amazing and wonderful experience at Elemental. After completing my time there I feel like I made so much progress in my healing and recovery journey. I was very hesitant about entering treatment, but the staff there made the transition and experience very pleasant and worthwhile. I have never encountered a more accommodating staff in all my years in recovery. As an all women’s treatment facility the staff is all female which I greatly appreciated. I can honestly say each staff member always went above and beyond to make us clients feel safe, seen and heard. They made the whole process at Elemental one I’ll never forget and will surely carry with me for a lifetime. From the accommodations, to the groups, to the food and the one-on-one therapy – it was all so beautifully curated. You can feel how much this place cares about you as an individual, not just as some insurance policy like many other centers. I loved the home environment, it was very cozy and comfortable, and the meals were out of this world; something you don’t find at many other places.
If you’re a woman in need of mental health services I couldn’t recommend this place more. Thank you again to Elemental for a truly lifesaving experience.

I am in love with this facility. I have been through treatment many times about seven years exactly going into multiple residentials per year. Elemental Health however, has deeply impacted me and changed my perspective on my mental health and for the first time, I felt hope that I would be able to do this. Staff is absolutely incredible. These are people that genuinely want to help. Nicole The owner is absolutely an angel. She helped me when I was going through hard times with my daughter having surgery and she was able to get me more time there to process. The amount of care and love that these people show is a game changer. If I were to ever go back to Treatment again, I would come here! You guys have made the largest impact on me and my future and I couldn’t be more grateful!
 
Life-changing experience. The team at Ellemental truly cares and creates a safe, supportive environment for healing and growth. From the staff to the program itself, every part of my experience exceeded my expectations. I felt seen, heard, and supported every step of the way. The tools, guidance, and community I found here have made a lasting impact on my life. I am incredibly grateful and would highly recommend Ellemental to anyone looking for real support and transformation.
 
Elemental was amazing. This was the perfect place to do inner child work and unpack trauma. The house is beautiful and cozy and I was able to reset my nervous system through the mind body spirit somatic and emotional therapy. I enjoyed the pool and the sun deck. The chef is amazing and got my health back on track. The team is incredible. I loved the incorporation of art therapy as well. Overall wonderful experience
 
 
As a treatment provider myself, I’m extremely discerning about where I refer both my clients and my own loved ones—especially when it comes to residential mental health care for women. EleMental Health has consistently earned my trust through their compassionate, clinically sound, and truly holistic approach to treatment.

What sets EleMental apart is their deep understanding of the unique needs of women, particularly those navigating trauma and PTSD. Their inclusion of evidence-based modalities like EMDR and neurofeedback makes the program not just supportive, but transformative. The environment is warm and grounding, and their multidisciplinary team integrates emotional, psychological, physical, and spiritual healing in a way that feels both personalized and empowering.

I have referred clients to EleMental knowing they will be met with respect, care, and a therapeutic container that fosters true healing. For any woman in need of comprehensive mental health support, this is a place I recommend without hesitation.

It is owned and operated by two female clinicians as well, so I don’t have to worry that corporate interests are dictating or limiting client care.

 
 

As a clinician in the community with a group practice and many opportunities to refer to higher levels of care, I am always staying in touch with the latest and greatest in our community. I have had the pleasure of getting to know the work that is done at Elemental Health and I have been so impressed by the evidenced-based treatment and thoughtful care they are providing to the community. The space is breathtaking and peaceful and the chef is extraordinary.
The ladies that developed this program truly embody the term specialized as they do not fail to look at any and all possible underlying issues (which women often report are ignored in our medical community). They do so with full hormone and blood panels to assess physiological factors that can be influencing mental health.
Their ability to treat not just the symptoms but the root causes of mental and emotional pain is why they are so able to help individuals navigating challenges related to chronic pain, neurodivergence, and dissociative disorders—areas that many centers struggle to address with such care and clinical sophistication.
Elemental’s team brings a holistic and integrative approach to treatment, including modalities like somatic therapy, EMDR, and mindfulness practices, all grounded in clinical expertise. They truly meet each client where they are, tailoring care to the whole person—body, mind, and spirit.

 
 
This place literally saved my life❤️ Staff are amazing and caring. Absolutely recommend to anyone needing some guidance.
 
 
 

The first few days I was here I was having flashbacks and I crawled into bed, and Nicolle helped me move to the living room and ground w/ ice and peppermint essential oils, and I felt safe and seen for the first time in a long time. I did not know what it felt like to feel safe before I got here.

 

 
 
 

I think the biggest thing I’ve overcome since being here is that feeling that I need to do whatever OTHER people want. Now I know that I don’t owe anyone anything and I get to decide what I want to do with my life. I am allowed to put myself in safe situations and don’t have to feel guilty about that.

 

 
 
 

I have met so many safe people and it makes me feel more hopeful and like I deserve and am allowed to choose safe options. I feel more in control of my anxiety as well… I can choose healthy coping mechanisms and even if it takes longer for relief, the relief comes eventually.

 

 
 
 

I really enjoyed my time here, wonderful staff and very supportive group of individuals. Made me feel extremely safe & welcomed… The owners are some of the kindest individuals I’ve met… I’ve never seen such hardworking, caring people who spend day to night here making sure we are always okay!

 

 
 
 

I feel like I got a brain-cleanse — like my brain was dirty and it got scrubbed out. I’m more optimistic, kind to myself, resilient, able to process emotions, and excited for the future.

And: Life is about the little moments, and finding beauty and enjoyment on the journey.

 

 
 
 

It’s scary and it’s hard, but it’s also safe and it’s freeing. Every person who walks in this building wants to do whatever they can to help.

 

 
 
 

I overcame a ton of my most powerful limiting beliefs about myself, learned how to be independent and self-soothe, and learned how to process my emotions in a healthy way so they don’t spiral out of control.

 

 
 
 

I was in a very dark place before coming here. Thanks to EleMental, I finally feel in control again.

 

 
 
 

Frequently Asked Questions About Personality Disorders

Understanding a personality disorder diagnosis and treatment options can bring up a lot of uncertainty. If you don’t see your question here, our admissions team is happy to help.

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Personality disorders often develop from a combination of genetics, temperament, and early relational patterns. Inconsistent caregiving, invalidation, or unstable environments can shape long-term thinking and behavior patterns. These patterns become deeply ingrained by early adulthood. Understanding their origin helps guide a more compassionate treatment approach.

Many personality disorders involve intense emotional reactions and unstable relationships. Fear of abandonment, difficulty trusting others, or rigid thinking patterns can strain personal and professional connections. These patterns often feel automatic rather than intentional. Skills-based therapy helps build more flexible, sustainable ways of relating to others.

Residential treatment provides structure and consistency, which supports new pattern-building. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, offered within a residential setting, teaches emotional regulation and distress tolerance skills directly. Daily practice within a supportive community reinforces these skills more effectively than sporadic outpatient sessions. This consistency helps translate insight into lasting behavior change.

Personality disorders frequently overlap with mood and trauma-related conditions. Borderline personality disorder, for example, shares strong links with trauma history and emotional dysregulation. Treating only the personality disorder without addressing these overlapping conditions can limit progress. A layered treatment plan improves outcomes across all present conditions.

Coverage for personality disorder treatment depends on each woman’s specific insurance plan. The admissions team verifies insurance benefits and reviews co-payments before treatment begins. This process addresses financial concerns early in the admissions journey. Contacting admissions directly clarifies exact coverage and any next steps.